My husband and I married on a deck over the ocean. It was perfectly beautiful.
We had
ten guests. I think we had two rows of
three chairs on each side to make an “aisle.”
In the months leading up to the wedding, I was becoming upset about the
lack of aisle definition. I know that is
a really ridiculous thing to become fixated on, but yet, I couldn’t shake the
idea.
I
discussed with lots of people how to define the aisle. Bear in mind some parameters:
One. It was a deck.
Wooden material. We were completely
unable to poke things in the ground. I
got a lot of suggestions of Sheppards’ hooks.
Yeah – totally impossible.
Two. We married in Bermuda. This meant we had to transport all materials
from the east coast of the US to a tiny island in the Atlantic. The lighter and easier to transport
materials, the easier it was for everyone.
Again, people suggested sticking Sheppards’ hooks in potted soil, mason
jars with candles, or bringing bags of small colored marbles. Again – totally impossible.
Three.
Wind. The deck was over the ocean. Anything small and light (but easily
transportable!) would blow away.
I was
at a total loss. I really scoured the
internet and The Knot for suggestions, but I kept coming back to this same picture
in my mind. I’m a simple girl and I
wanted a simple scattering of rose petals to define the aisle. How could I recreate it and still work within
the restrictions I outlined above?
Some
extra googling lead me to the idea of petal ribbons: ribbon covered with
scattered rose petals. The ribbons could
be taped to the deck and the petals would not blow away since they were glued
to the ribbon. Below, you can see how our actual aisle ended up looking. I'll tell you how I made them and then tell you some other variations I had on this idea.
I found a website that sold these ribbon petals, but holy hell, they
were expensive. I wasn’t about to spend the
kind of money they wanted on 60 feet of ribbon covered with rose petals. Not when I could make them myself, wrap them
up carefully in my suitcase, and bring them to Bermuda.
I
started with the ribbon. I wanted the
widest ribbon I could find, which turned out to be 4.5”. I ordered white satin ribbon from Papermart
that is actually used for building openings and ceremonial cutting of
things. Hey, it worked! Price?
$11 for 100 yards.
I next
needed rose petals. I found an awesome website:
www.petalgarden.com. They sell both silk and freeze-dried petals
in more colors than I ever imagined. Two
great perks of this site: I could order samples of any colors I wanted for
$2.95 (Samples!)
and they offer a guide for estimating how many petals you’ll need depending on
your use (Petals101).
Since our wedding colors were not
finalized at the time I ordered the petals, I went with simple ivory. However, had I known my maid of honor would
be in dark purple (which meant my bouquet and my husband’s boutonniere would also be dark
purple), I would have done a mix of ivory and dark purple or another
coordinating color.
I determined that for the type of
coverage I wanted on the ribbon, I’d need 200 petals per five feet of ribbon. For 60’, I’d need at least 2400
petals. I ordered 3000 petals (color #402),
so it cost $50. The website does offer
deep discounts on large bags of similar color petals, other “throwables” (like snowflakes,hearts) and floating silk rose petals.
The last piece I needed was
glue. I tried several, but the best
choice was fabric glue ($3).
I was ready to go!
I cut the ribbon into five foot
sections. I spread fabric glue all over
the first foot of the ribbon then covered it with rose petals. I placed a book over newly glued petals to
keep them in place while the glue dried and moved on to the next one foot
area. The glue dried in ~ 5
minutes. I removed the books and was
finished!
In total, I made 12 five foot
sections to equal 60’. It would line
either side of our 30 foot aisle nicely.
Total cost = $11 + $50 + $3 = $64.
Transporting to Bermuda = free!
To get them to Bermuda, I wrapped
each five foot section in paper towels and laid them in the bottom of my
suitcase. They were perfect when we got
there. Our coordinator taped them to the
deck and we had a beautiful aisle.
Interestingly, after the ceremony, they made for fun picture props…
I did have other ideas for how to
accomplish the scattered petal look.
Tulle is another type of ribbon that is made very wide. I considered buying very wide white tulle,
lying it on the floor, scattering petals on half long ways, and then folding
the tulle over top of the petals. While
there would be no gluing of individual petals, you’d still have to figure out
how to seal the tulle. Anyway, just
thinking out loud.
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